Question from Adders (Q11-15)


Q: Is there such thing as an ambivert? Because I’m still confused whether I’m an I/E so right now I identify myself as an -NTP.

A: Yepp there are also ambiverts which basically can be both extroverts and introverts. When you took your test did the result show your E/I around 45-55%? If that’s the case then you can definitely fall to the ambiversion spectrum.



Q: As an INTJ woman, is it good to have an ENTJ man?

A: INTJ and ENTJ generally get along very well, and this type of MBTI match is one of the most ideal.

ENTJs and INTJs have the same judging functions as well as the same perceiving functions. If any relationship can be seen as a soul mate experience then it’s this one, or an identical ENTJ-ENTJ relationship. In the end it’s only logical that someone who is just like you will understand you best.

ENTJs are usually happy with any relationship that can offer them growth and intellectual stimulation and the INTJ has a lot to offer in that respect. These types are often interested in the same things, have similar life philosophies and similar thinking patterns. This can make for hours of interesting conversations and debates and a feeling of mutual understanding.

It takes both these types quite some time to open up and many people are written off by them as not worthy of emotional attachment, so when they finally find someone who understands them on a deeper level it can be really intense and passionate.

What each type gets from the relationship:

– lots of stimulating conversations and idea exploring
– learning new things and sharing knowledge
– ENTJs learn to be more patient and reflective
– INTJs learn to act more and think less (yes, too much thinking/analyzing can be bad)
– a reliable partner in life who you can trust
– a low maintenance relationship with no emotional neediness or unnecessary drama
– a peaceful, structured and organized life which is important to both these types


Q: Do you feel it’s possible for INFP to feel intense loneliness?

A: Well, what I found contradictory about INFPs are their need to have a lot of alone time but also to feel intense loneliness at other times, more so than other introverted types.

The problems could stem from:

1. Feeling strongly about your values and don’t ever want to compromise them to make your life easier

Translation: Other people compromise easily and therefore don’t understand your problems of trying to live a life that matches your values.

2. INFPs just can’t understand how people can ignore the suffering around the world.

Translation: Other people are callous or oblivious and can’t understand your problems because of how deeply you feel about the inequalities in the world.

3. Society is so materialistic and you can’t relate to that.

Translation: Being poor is more spiritually evolved and since you’re more spiritually evolved, other people can’t understand your problems.
Basically the intense loneliness that INFP might suffer probably stem from their mindset of “us vs them” in which they just can’t understand how people don’t feel so strongly about something as they do, which somehow creates the feelings of alienation for them which in turn could become intense loneliness at times.



Q: How to stop people from being baper bc of ENFP’s limitless kindness and caring?

A: That’s a hard question. It’ll need to be based on the other people’s personality type and how do they perceive this ENFP’s kindness.

The key not to be baper is to try to rationalise that feeling and take a step back to evaluate it objectively. Do this ENFP do this to all people or just me? What makes their treatment to me so special compared to the others?

But anyway, there’s nothing wrong with being baper hahaha



Q: Which personality fits INFJ because I can’t seem to find someone who fits me?

A: You need someone with the same F trait however with the opposite of Introversion type which is E, thus I think you will be doing well with ESFJ, he/she will be coping up with your Introverted side, starting conversations, open up with you, his sensing will also going well with your intuitive side. He/she also has feelings like you and principly strong with J type like you. Good luck 😉


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